Dads find the perinatal period hard too, and often find there are few supports in place. PANDA has partnered with SMS4dads to connect more dads to this valuable and free service.
SMS4dads is designed specifically for dads and has been created by researchers and health professionals. The free text messages help dads feel more supported and included in their parenting journey.
“I work long hours – so that reminder throughout the day at a random time to make you think of your baby and your partner is huge.”
Research shows that although they have a major influence on parenting decisions most information is currently directed at mums, and there’s not a lot that speaks directly to dads. That’s why SMS4dads was designed to acknowledge the important role dads play in raising their babies & children.
SMS4dads sends text messages with tips, info and links to your phone just when you and your baby need it.
Plus, if it’s not the right time, you can refer back to the text messages when you need them.
“This has been a massive support for me. Every tip has helped form the dad I've become in some small way.”
Helpful Information
How dads can build a strong bond with their baby
SMS4DeadlyDads
SMS4DeadlyDads sends short texts with tips, info and links to your phone just when you and your baby need it.
If you identify as Aboriginal or Torres Strait Islander, you’re sent a unique set of messages designed especially for First Nations dads.
The messages help dads:
- connect with their bub
- support mum
- and look after themselves
You can sign up online by entering your mobile number and your baby’s due or actual date of birth.
SMS4DeadlyDads has been co-designed by the SMS4dads First Nations team Uncle Mick Adams, Craig Hammond and Dave Edwards in consultation with an Advisory Group of senior First Nations men representing Aboriginal Controlled Health organisations.
What do the messages say?
You’ll receive three types of messages:
Messages from your baby…
“Although it’s noisy in here, I will be able to hear your voice from about 20 weeks. Try telling me about the things we will do together.”
Messages with links to other information…
“If you’re both up for it, then there’s usually no problem with having sex during pregnancy. It will not harm the baby. Visit this LINK for more info.”
Messages to check in on how you’re feeling…
Approximately every three weeks a ‘How’s it going?” interactive text is sent timed for common challenges such as baby crying or work-family balance. Dads can reply with a click and be directed to online help or more information.