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Podcast: How our ideas of parenthood make us feel like we’re failing

Is this... it? Getting through those days when parenting just isn’t what you thought it would be.

Emma thought she would slip into parenthood as naturally as anyone. She’d been around young kids her whole life and could change a nappy by the time she was 12.

But when the moment arrived, it was nothing like she expected. Mental health and fertility challenges had contributed new fears and ambivalence to Emma’s entry into motherhood –it wasn’t the love bubble joy she was expecting.

It turns out that’s totally common, natural even, to feel unexpected emotions like disdain – and even regret – about becoming a parent.

You’re not alone if the way you feel doesn’t match the way the world expects you to feel.

Emma speaks openly about those mixed feelings when she became a mum, and Motherhood Studies Sociologist Dr Sophie Brock unpacks the layers of parenting that make it feel like a total chore when you just want “the old you” back.

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Host: Gia Hogarth

PANDA Digital Editor: Serena Ashmore

PANDA Commissioning Editor: Bec Shafer

Deadset Studios Senior Producer: Grace Pashley

Deadset Studios Executive Producer: Rachel Fountain

Sound Design by Krissy Miltiadou

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